Comments on: Conversations between women http://ana.people.vee.net/archives/2005/07/12/conversations-with-women/ love in the time of cultural studies Sat, 22 Nov 2008 23:15:20 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.0.3 by: adrian http://ana.people.vee.net/archives/2005/07/12/conversations-with-women/#comment-721 Wed, 13 Jul 2005 17:52:26 +0000 http://ana.people.vee.net/archives/2005/07/12/conversations-with-women/#comment-721 <p>Rock? Why? </p> Rock? Why?

]]> by: Melissa http://ana.people.vee.net/archives/2005/07/12/conversations-with-women/#comment-719 Wed, 13 Jul 2005 13:48:59 +0000 http://ana.people.vee.net/archives/2005/07/12/conversations-with-women/#comment-719 <p>;) Adrian... someone has less play in their tone than you and I... thats all. Nice bantering with you today :)... nothing quite stirs the debate like… well… why did the drag queen/ king cross the road? :) Love that Martine called me Rock today too... :) </p> ;)
Adrian… someone has less play in their tone than you and I… thats all. Nice bantering with you today :)… nothing quite stirs the debate like… well… why did the drag queen/ king cross the road?
:)
Love that Martine called me Rock today too… :)

]]> by: martin http://ana.people.vee.net/archives/2005/07/12/conversations-with-women/#comment-714 Wed, 13 Jul 2005 07:44:11 +0000 http://ana.people.vee.net/archives/2005/07/12/conversations-with-women/#comment-714 <p>to anonymous gentleman who has been in the first and fifth situations, you have now also been in the following situation: 1. posting on ann's blog anonymously (yet in a style reminiscent of someone else. adrian? does the weedy tone and use of Big Words sound familiar to you??? go get him tiger)and being a coward by going on to be (anonymously) rude to melissa who rocks. grow up little man or i'll come over to your blog with my rusty scissors. </p> to anonymous gentleman who has been in the first and fifth situations, you have now also been in the following situation:
1. posting on ann’s blog anonymously (yet in a style reminiscent of someone else. adrian? does the weedy tone and use of Big Words sound familiar to you??? go get him tiger)and being a coward by going on to be (anonymously) rude to melissa who rocks. grow up little man or i’ll come over to your blog with my rusty scissors.

]]> by: Mr Frasco Man the Argumentative Pirate http://ana.people.vee.net/archives/2005/07/12/conversations-with-women/#comment-713 Wed, 13 Jul 2005 07:34:47 +0000 http://ana.people.vee.net/archives/2005/07/12/conversations-with-women/#comment-713 <p>My relationships only last as long as I'm in port, until I'm done raping and pillaging.</p> <p>Nothing can make some feel bad, hurt, and confused quite like the cold steel of my rusty cutlass. </p> My relationships only last as long as I’m in port, until I’m done raping and pillaging.

Nothing can make some feel bad, hurt, and confused quite like the cold steel of my rusty cutlass.

]]> by: Anonymous http://ana.people.vee.net/archives/2005/07/12/conversations-with-women/#comment-711 Wed, 13 Jul 2005 05:20:27 +0000 http://ana.people.vee.net/archives/2005/07/12/conversations-with-women/#comment-711 <p>I am a man and have certainly been in the first and fifith situations, although I have never been the victim or perpetrator of infidelity (against my own relationships). I have also perpetrated 1. and 5. It's perspective. Relationships often have one person who is more into it than the other, and these are the results. Melissa, you are a sexist. </p> I am a man and have certainly been in the first and fifith situations, although I have never been the victim or perpetrator of infidelity (against my own relationships). I have also perpetrated 1. and 5. It’s perspective. Relationships often have one person who is more into it than the other, and these are the results. Melissa, you are a sexist.

]]> by: ann http://ana.people.vee.net/archives/2005/07/12/conversations-with-women/#comment-708 Wed, 13 Jul 2005 03:14:58 +0000 http://ana.people.vee.net/archives/2005/07/12/conversations-with-women/#comment-708 <p>Interesting point Adrian .... do you think that a man would make the same assertion about a woman? </p> Interesting point Adrian …. do you think that a man would make the same assertion about a woman?

]]> by: matrine http://ana.people.vee.net/archives/2005/07/12/conversations-with-women/#comment-706 Wed, 13 Jul 2005 01:59:39 +0000 http://ana.people.vee.net/archives/2005/07/12/conversations-with-women/#comment-706 <p>i dunno what youse is talking bout, i've had nothing but quality and considered experiences in this regard. and conversations??? never had 'em. i'm off to throw myself in front of a train now. </p> i dunno what youse is talking bout, i’ve had nothing but quality and considered experiences in this regard. and conversations??? never had ‘em. i’m off to throw myself in front of a train now.

]]> by: Melissa http://ana.people.vee.net/archives/2005/07/12/conversations-with-women/#comment-705 Tue, 12 Jul 2005 21:43:55 +0000 http://ana.people.vee.net/archives/2005/07/12/conversations-with-women/#comment-705 <p>Fair nuf... but did it make you laugh? I hope you can tell I didn’t try to hard to hide a female perspective on it. Have you heard how many blondes it takes to screw in a light bulb?</p> <p>Geepers! If I don’t heal soon, I may have to consider a vow of celibacy! ;) </p> Fair nuf… but did it make you laugh? I hope you can tell I didn’t try to hard to hide a female perspective on it. Have you heard how many blondes it takes to screw in a light bulb?

Geepers!
If I don’t heal soon, I may have to consider a vow of celibacy!
;)

]]> by: Adrian http://ana.people.vee.net/archives/2005/07/12/conversations-with-women/#comment-704 Tue, 12 Jul 2005 15:39:20 +0000 http://ana.people.vee.net/archives/2005/07/12/conversations-with-women/#comment-704 <p>Yeh, I'm also curious by the fact that somehow women are able to understand the male psyche perfectly, yet if a man were to make the same assertion with respect to women, he would be howled down with indignation. </p> Yeh, I’m also curious by the fact that somehow women are able to understand the male psyche perfectly, yet if a man were to make the same assertion with respect to women, he would be howled down with indignation.

]]> by: Melissa http://ana.people.vee.net/archives/2005/07/12/conversations-with-women/#comment-703 Tue, 12 Jul 2005 13:41:33 +0000 http://ana.people.vee.net/archives/2005/07/12/conversations-with-women/#comment-703 <p>The conversations these boyfriends are having with their girlfriends:</p> <p>Conversation 1: Boyfriend is behaving ambivalently. There is no conversation here. Boyfriend feels slightly bad but prefers not to think about it.</p> <p>Conversation 2: Boyfriend sleeps with another woman. There is plenty of conversation here. It just happened. He is sorry he was caught. He didn’t think. Boyfriend feels slightly bad but prefers not to think about it – except when begging.</p> <p>Conversation 3: Girlfriend sleeps with another. Boyfriend never noticed. He didn’t think. Boyfriend feels slightly bad but prefers not to think about it. If she tells him, he will be totally shattered. Boyfriend would then most certainly get pissed and go to a strip club to avoid thinking about the damage caused to his ego. (damage to relationship will be an after thought).</p> <p>Conversation 4: Boyfriend turns out to be married. He didn’t think. It was supposed to be a one off. He didn’t expect to like her so much. He doesn’t know what to do but can’t bare to be with out either of the women in his life. Man feels slightly bad but prefers not to think about it. </p> <p>Conversation 5: Ex-boyfriend always arranges to see ex-girlfriend and then stands her up. Short conversation… He didn’t think. What is she talking about? Ex-boyfriend feels slightly bad but prefers not to think about it.</p> <p>Ah… Very simply put these men have to be recognised as having very bad manners. It need not be more complex as that. They also have done themselves a personal disservice for pretending to be dumber than they really are. For what? An overwhelming cowardly need to exit emotional conversations asap. </p> <p>Me? Oh, fine thanks… not pissed off about a thing! </p> The conversations these boyfriends are having with their girlfriends:

Conversation 1: Boyfriend is behaving ambivalently. There is no conversation here. Boyfriend feels slightly bad but prefers not to think about it.

Conversation 2: Boyfriend sleeps with another woman. There is plenty of conversation here. It just happened. He is sorry he was caught. He didn’t think. Boyfriend feels slightly bad but prefers not to think about it – except when begging.

Conversation 3: Girlfriend sleeps with another. Boyfriend never noticed. He didn’t think. Boyfriend feels slightly bad but prefers not to think about it. If she tells him, he will be totally shattered. Boyfriend would then most certainly get pissed and go to a strip club to avoid thinking about the damage caused to his ego. (damage to relationship will be an after thought).

Conversation 4: Boyfriend turns out to be married. He didn’t think. It was supposed to be a one off. He didn’t expect to like her so much. He doesn’t know what to do but can’t bare to be with out either of the women in his life. Man feels slightly bad but prefers not to think about it.

Conversation 5: Ex-boyfriend always arranges to see ex-girlfriend and then stands her up. Short conversation… He didn’t think. What is she talking about? Ex-boyfriend feels slightly bad but prefers not to think about it.

Ah… Very simply put these men have to be recognised as having very bad manners. It need not be more complex as that. They also have done themselves a personal disservice for pretending to be dumber than they really are. For what? An overwhelming cowardly need to exit emotional conversations asap.

Me? Oh, fine thanks… not pissed off about a thing!

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